I awoke this morning to the aroma of bacon frying.   I stumbled into the kitchen to find Jared at the stove with a skillet of bacon.

“That smells so good!”  I said, “Is it for me?”

“No.” He replied with a very fake scowl that quickly turned into a smile, “Yes.  Happy Mother’s Day.”

“I didn’t know you knew how to fry bacon.”  I added as I snatched a piece.

“I’m pretty much winging it.” He said with full teenage confidence, “But looks like it’s working.”

And it was.  I was totally impressed by the plate of perfectly fried bacon on his left.  It was not too crispy, but thoroughly and evenly cooked—the way, of course, that God intended bacon to be prepared.

“I’m surprised there are so many pieces left!”  I added as I snatched my second piece.

He was adding more to the skillet as he replied, “Well, I can’t eat any while I have raw bacon on my hands.”

I totally gushed with pride. I felt quite sure there was not a mother in this world who, at that very moment, could be more pleased with her son.

As moms, we tend to pour all that we are and all that we have into this difficult task of raising our kids. We laugh, we cry, and sometimes we hide in the closet with a cocktail, but we never forget that what we are doing could possibly be the crowning achievement of our contributions in this life.  

I have thought so much about what I wanted to accomplish during this interesting stage of parenting. What I want most is to be growing good men… men that would someday make good husbands and good friends…men that could sufficiently care for themselves, cook for themselves, and feel content with themselves.  I feel as though I received a glimpse of that today.

It has been a lazy 15th Mother’s Day for me, which is really my favorite kind of day, filled with flowers and cards, and guys trying not to argue.  But the greatest gift I received today was the sight of my disheveled 15 year old son standing at the stove in his boxers.   Look out ladies….this one is going to be quite a catch some day! 

 
 
 
 
A trip to the grocery store today resulted in an assortment of red, yellow, and orange tomatoes. 
 It was a perfect excuse to take photographs with my "new" old door I bought from a friend a couple of weeks ago.   
I set up my "shoot" on the floor of the garage.  The open garage allowed for some decent lighting.
I experimented with a few different angles, but soon I just ended up lying on the floor.  I really wish I had swept out the garage first. :)  I think the one above is my favorite.
I probably took a gazillion shots of the tomatoes. When I began to hear the mumblings of hungry teenagers, I headed to the kitchen and chopped up a few of my "models", and added them to some mozzarella cheese and a few fresh leaves of basil.
To the tomatoes, cheese, and basil, I added 1/2 cup of red wine vinegar, 1/4 cup oil, 1 tbsp raw sugar, and 1/2 tsp. salt.  I let this mixture marinate while I cooked about a pound of pasta. After draining the pasta and allowing it to cool, I tossed it with the tomato mixture. 
The multi-colored tomato mixture with mozzarella cheese and basil made a great cold pasta salad, and it made me feel less guilty for playing on the floor of the garage for a couple of hours...
 
 
 My brain has been running wild lately...darting from this idea to that one....then back again to a different one...and on over to that one over there....  At the age of 44, you would think I would have learned to chase those thoughts down, throw a rope around them, and put them in the barn... But I haven't.  What I have learned is that while I am running in the direction of one of those ideas, I then realize I forgot to bring the rope....  On the way back to get the rope, I remember that I forgot where I put the rope.  Then I decide to go to the store and buy some new rope... But on the way to the store, another great thought dashes in front of me, and with great excitement I then veer off to follow that one...well, because at the moment is seems much more exciting!  Then, I realize it's time to pick the kids up from school....

This past week, all these ideas have been pulling on my brain so vigorously it has reminded me of when the boys were small...and I was trying to talk on the phone.  They could be playing happily with some toy, and as soon as I picked up that phone, everything went downhill.  They were instantly in need of my attention to the point that they would surely die without it..and, of course, each one thought they needed my attention much more that the other one...and before you knew it, I had two screaming toddlers at my feet, and I'm screaming at the lady from the JCPenney catalog department....  This reminds me of why I did a lot of online shopping....


Now where was I?  Oh, the Homemade Laundry Detergent.  For a week I have used the homemade laundry detergent that I made last week, and I am so happy to say that I LOVE it!  I cannot tell a bit of difference from the Tide that I regularly use.  The hardest thing about it is getting used to just using a tablespoonful...I have come to terms with using a heaping tablespoonful...and that is really all you need.  And I totally LOVE the fact that it is saving me money, AND keeping me from running to the store to get more detergent.  That leaves me much more time to chase those thoughts....  More details here....
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Now for the project...  Last weekend I had the opportunity to wander through Hobby Lobby for a couple of hours...and I could have stayed longer...while the boys were at the gym.  I bought some wooden letters (on sale of course) and some scrapbook paper.  I'm covering the letters with scrapbook paper and modge podge.  
I'm cutting pieces to fit the letter, then gluing on with modge podge. When the letter is totally covered with the paper, I am brushing on an additional layer of modge podge to seal it. 
I'm not finished with this one yet, but so far I am happy with how it's going.
Now you may be saying to yourself...."I thought this was a food blog."  This is a true statement...sort of...  I did make some great cupcakes this week, so I will leave you with these "Outrageous Orange and Orange Cherry Bomb Cupcakes."  I'm still floating from the compliment my son gave me regarding these. "Mom, this may be the best cupcake I have ever eaten."   Talk about some major brownie points!  ...Or would that be cupcake points?   
Gotta run now...I have a few more ideas I have to chase....
 
 
One of my teenage boys came to me this afternoon, and asked me if I would show him how to make homemade marshmallows.  This rarely happens.  Usually its..."Mom, would you make me some of this or that?"  I have no idea what came over him, but it was glad it did.  Between the football recruiting, baseball games, sports talk shows, basketball games, and other sports statistical conversations,  I sometimes feel a bit left out.....so I was very pleased.  
Now marshmallows aren't difficult to make, but they are very technical.  That is probably not the best description for the process...but let's just say they are quite a process to make...so it could be a positive or a negative experience really.... Here is the recipe I use, and the blog post about how to make the least mess... :)  http://smittenkitchen.com/2009/06/springy-fluffy-marshmallows/ 
Jared has never liked store bought marshmallows, so he was skeptical when I first made them at home. 
We were all amazed at how much better the homemade version tasted!  Obviously, they left an impression on him, since he actually asked for instruction.  
 

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Marshmallow Slab covered in powdered sugar.
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We let ours chill in the frig for about 3 hours before cutting.
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The powdered sugar calms down the stickiness. :)
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It can be a pretty messy project...but they are totally worth it!
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Homemade Marshmallows are definitely worth the effort.
He really did a great job, even though he thought he had to stir for "hours."  
Who would have ever guessed that homemade marshmallows could make a mom's day? :)
 
 
This quote is often misattributed to Charles Darwin, but actually comes from  Clarence Darrow, as quoted inImproving the Quality of Life for the Black Elderly: Challenges and Opportunities : Hearing before the Select Committee on Aging, House of Representatives, One Hundredth Congress, first session, September 25, 1987 (1988)"   http://wiki.answers.com/Q/It_is_not_the_strongest_of_the_species_that_survive_nor_the_most_intelligent_but_the_one_most_responsive_to_change_What_is_this_mean
I also see on some sites that author is listed as unknown...which may be a smart way of not entering into discussion of two such controversial personalities.
But no matter who said it...anyone who has been on this earth for more than a few moon cycles can attest to it's significance.  It is one I am determined to commit to memory. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 Occasionally I will have an idea that leaves me so excited that my pulse is racing, and my mind is spinning.  This is one of those ideas. 

Don't you agree that sometimes we need a goal that makes us feel good, not just a goal of some sort of deprivation...like dieting, quitting a bad habit, or  meal planning...but one that lifts us up, and leaves us smiling?
  
My Resolution # 2 is just that kind of goal...and I am so excited about it I can't seem to type fast enough to tell you about it!  
This idea started rolling around in my brain a couple of months ago after I saw a post on Pinterest about writing down a daily inspirational quote. The idea was to write down some positive quote daily and put it somewhere you can see it.  Obviously, there isn't anything new in that idea, but...   I am a strong believer in the notion that words can be a powerful force in our lives.  We hear a lot of negative words on a daily basis, and this resolution is about putting in some positive.  So I started to wonder....could something that took less than a minute, like reading an inspirational sentence, really make a difference in my thinking over a period of time?  I'll have an answer in a few months.  Then I decided to try to test this on a larger scale. Would it have an impact on anyone else?
So my second resolution is just that and more.  I will find some inspirational, motivational, positive , etc set of words, quote, etc... on a daily basis.  I will write it on a piece of paper, and stick it on my bulletin board.  But that is not all....and this is where it gets fun  I need some study participants...you, of course.  I need you to help me test this theory.  I would  like to share the same quote with you, on a daily basis.  I'm not talking about sending you a long blog post....I do realize that could get boring and monotonous...all I'm talking about is a quote...just a sentence...a sentence that can be read in the time it takes to glance around the room.  Will those few seconds impact your thinking?  
To aid in convincing you, I want to bring up Newton's Laws of Motion.  Yes, I'm talking Physics. ( I had to reach way back in the brain for this one...thank goodness for Google...)  Let's just talk about the first one for now. Every object in a state of uniform motion tends to remain in that state of motion unless an external force is applied to it.
Ok, in Kelli words,  that means if something is moving forward, it's going to keep moving forward...  If it's moving backwards, it's going to keep moving backwards.... If it's standing still, it's going to probably stay there.... unless a big wind comes up and blows it this way or that.  Now why am I talking about physics in this post?  Because I believe that these daily words can be an external force to get us moving in a positive direction.  Why do I want you to join me?   Here are a few quotes that will help me plead my case...
Sticks in a bundle are unbreakable.  ~Kenyan Proverb

 A single leaf working alone provides no shade.  ~Chuck Page

Let's look at it like a social experiment.  Could focusing on a few positive words for 10 seconds every day make a difference?  I don't know, but I want to find out.  So, maybe it might make a difference to me, but would it make a difference to you?  I don't know that either...but I would like to find out.  So what do I need from you? Permission.  I need permission to send you a quote daily in your e-mail or a facebook message (or both.)  What else do I need?  Nothing really, but a committment would be great...just a commitment that you would glance at it and take 5 or 10 seconds to read it.  No response or reply to the daily quote is needed or necessary at all...just read it.  
What do you think?  Are you in?  I sure hope so.....